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A volunteer group of men who create discussions and teach skills about how bystanders can get involved in making our community safer for eve

Creepy “Girls Around Me” app

One of our most popular and engaging workshops through MAC is the one about how technologies are exploited to stalk and harass people. Audiences are often unnerved by how software and hardware is used to gather information that is then used to monitor, locate, harass, impersonate, or intimidate them.

A recent article by John Brownlee at Cult of Mac explores a similarly creepy app called Girls Around Me. At the time of this post, the app had been pulled from the iOS app store, but it doesn’t mean it or something like it won’t come back. The app highlights security and privacy concerns inherent in some of the ways that personal information is disclosed through apps and social networking.

On the surface, the app is sleazy and creepy looking. It is designed with silhouettes of naked women on a radar screen, as if they are targets. It evens advertises that you should consider this public information an invitation to approach these women for sex or worse. “In the mood for love, or just after a one-night stand? Girls Around Me puts you in control.” The app plots public information from profiles on Facebook and Foursquare on a map so that you can see who has checked in near your current location. It also allows you to browse the profiles, check pictures, and message the individual. The design of the app and the stated purpose, again, is creepy unless you are the person “in control.”

However, Brownlee correctly highlights the fact that the app is accessing data that is considered public, whether or not the user understands the privacy settings or how the information is being used.  The best part about the app is it is another example of why we should educate people about how their data is used so that they can make purposeful decisions about what they share. If anything, this is a creepy enough example to get people to pay attention. 

At the end of every technology and stalking workshop, there is a line of people who want assistance in putting a numeric or visual password on their mobile device(s). Hopefully, we can use examples like this to educate people about how their information is distributed and accessed, as well as ways in which they can take steps to remain safe.


Sexual Assault Awareness Month event calendar

Mark your calendars! April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) and there are a number of events that you won’t want to miss. For those of you in the Iowa City area, RVAP has created a convenient 2012 SAAM event calendar. There are a number of powerful and engaging events happening right here on the UI campus and throughout the community. If you want a safe space to learn more about sexual assault and how to prevent it, discuss your experiences and receive support, or be a visible and supportive ally, consider attending one or more of the events on the calendar below. 


Mobile Masculinities project film viewing in April!

The Men’s Anti-Violence Council, in collaboration with the Career Leadership Academy (CLA) class at The University of Iowa, created a film project about masculinity. Mobile Masculinities was created by MAC member, Derrais Carter, in order to create discussions about masculinity among men on campus and in the community. In addition to creating interpersonal discussions, the video clips also serve as online resources.

You don’t need fancy recording equipment or studio space to have authentic discussions about masculinity. You can use a camera on almost any mobile device (e.g. cell phone camera, laptop webcam, tablet, etc.) and record men discussing masculinity.

The CLA students were incredible in supporting, advertising, recruiting, and editing material for the project. There will be a public viewing of the project on Tuesday, April 10 in Room A of the Iowa City Public Library starting at 6 p.m. There will be a panel discussion afterwards about masculinity in our community. The event is free and open to the public. Click on the image below for a larger version of the flyer. 

You can see our first Mobile Masculinities video clip with Jackson Katz here!


Sh*t men say to men who say sh*t to women on the streets

Check out this video about men addressing other men about inappropriate comments in public. Find out more about street harassment and what to do about it at Stop Street Harassment.


Happy International Women’s Day!

As most of you have already heard, March 8 is International Women’s Day. This year the theme is Connecting girls, inspiring futures. Take some time today to reflect how you are supporting the women and girls in your life and community, as well as how you can assist in empowering them across the world. If you cannot name anything specific that you are doing to help, follow some of the links in this post for ideas about how to get involved and be part of the solution.

Soraya Chemaly’s piece, International Women’s Day: 10 Reasons Why Feminism is Good For Boys and Men, provided me with some inspiration. Besides highlighting some important positive aspects of feminism on men and boys, there was a video produced by high school boys in Australia through the Gender Equality Project. Watch the video below and take a cue from these boys. Listen to the women and girls in your life about their experiences, educate yourself about the issues, and speak out to others as a supportive and active ally.


Stalkers just get to resign?

Maybe it’s just me, but if you admit to a local newspaper that you harassed and stalked someone, you probably should receive a stiffer punishment than resigning. Last week, Florida Democratic Rep. Richard Steinberg admitted to harassing/stalking a female federal prosecutor through dozens of text messages. Why did he have the luxury of choosing to resign? Why was that even an option? If an elected official admits to stalking someone, they should be fired and charged with a crime. I wish all stalking and harassment victims had the Secret Service at their disposal to identify their harassers.

The best part? Last week, Steinberg cast a vote to expand the definition of ‘aggravated stalking’ to include threats (and implied threats) made via electronic messages (e.g., texts, emails) and classify that action as a third-degree felony with a five-year maximum prison sentence. However, I doubt that Steinberg will ever see the inside of a prison cell.


Weekend Roundup


10 Responses to the phrase “Man Up”

You can check out more of Guante’s work at his website and his YouTube Channel.


National teen dating violence prevention & awareness month

For those of you who don’t know, in 2010, February was declared the national teen dating violence prevention and awareness month. Unfortunately, millions of teens experience physical and sexual abuse, violence, and harassment at the hands of their romantic partner. In fact, 1 in 3 teens experience physical, emotional, or verbal abuse from a partner.

There are several wonderful resources and initiatives that exist to raise awareness about and prevent teen dating violence. Below are three great places to start!

  • Check out Teen Dating Violence Month for more information about the month as well as facts and resources about teens and dating violence.
  • Check out Love is Respect for definitions and examples of healthy relationships and a 24/7 live chat and dating abuse hotline to get assistance and support regarding dating abuse.
  • Check out That’s Not Cool for some great videos and resources for how teens can talk about and address inappropriate and harmful dating behavior.

New Men Can Stop Rape campaign

Men Can Stop Rape (MCSR) just launched a new bystander intervention poster campaign called Where Do You Stand? MCSR previously had the popular My Strength is Not For Hurting campaign. During the past two years, MAC members distributed hundreds of those posters and received numerous positive responses from the message about men getting active in ending violence against women.

The new campaign features men with messages about how to take a stand and be an active bystanders. The majority of audience members in our bystander intervention training want strategies and language about how to get involved. It’s not that they don’t care. It’s often that they don’t know what to do or say. Follow the link(s) about to access the new poster campaign and ordering information. If you have any links to other effective and engaging awareness raising campaigns about violence prevention, send them our way!


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